"You understand that your fate and your heart and your soul is bound up with this person and that's what it is to be a Jew and that's what it is to love Israel. It has conditions of approval but it has no conditions of love. You can be angry, you can disapprove, you can say this is terrible and they shouldn't have done this and they shouldn't have done that and they should do the other thing, but you can say that about your kids or about your parents. At the end of the day just remember: even if