Just because you understand their trauma, doesn’t mean you have to tolerate their behavior, disrespect and denial. Healing doesn’t mean accepting mistreatment in the name of understanding. If they ignore, and flip the table over the harm they caused, it’s because admitting it… would ruin their image. So they chose to deny, distort, gaslight and create a new narrative because it keeps them safe from taking accountability. Protecting their reputation matters more than truth, because the truth woul